Tha Game Is F'd Up!

 

   I think I'm starting to see things very clearly in the battle of the sexes. When it comes to "Tha game being f'd up", I'm sure after reading this, others will share in my opinion. Then again, some won't. Hear me out! 

    The dating game is filled with guys that don't want to appear emotionally vulnerable and women that are. Which means its a delicate situation from the start. Both sides seem to be pretty consistent when it comes to throwing caution to the wind though. Lets get to it:

    Ladies first...

Ladies, it seems to me that falling into "like" is almost obsolete. By that I mean a lack in "social sequential progression"(<I just pulled that one out of my a$$). I keep hearing women say,"No one wants to commit or no one wants to be serious!". Maybe you're too serious. Maybe your desire to be in a relationship is much bigger than what you actually bring to one. You have to understand that person in the mirror first, then understand that somewhere in there you have to actually understand the nature of the man you're  with, not men in general. The social progression works like this: interest,Inquiry,Initiation, pursuit, determine if you wanna stay and play or load and go, wait out the cool(let them show you who they are), and then follow through. 

     Vaginal management plays a big role too. Look at it this way, if I went to a car dealership and I was told that I could drive the car anytime I want and bring it back to the lot whenever, why the hell would I buy it?! Zoom! Zoom! Zoom!  Now if the experience of the vehicle was made to be more enticing and I was made to feel that there is more here than a good ride, I would want that experience all to myself. F'n first and asking questions later is just poor vaginal management. 

    Fact of the matter is, you gotta have a whole lotta personality to distract a man from physical attraction. It's not a damned if you do, damned if you don't type of situation. Trust me. 

   Fellas...

It seems like everybody is tryin to get their numbers up! More women,more problems! You can't spend ya whole life on a smash-tastic voyage. Whether your running down the hill to hook up with one or walking down and gettin as many as you can, eventually a hunger for more will emerge. Things aren't made very easy for us though, right? We live in a time where the ones you're attracted to say they want(on approach) lobster but have been settling for shrimps their entire existence! You know the type. How can you take this woman seriously? On the other hand some say<---they don't require much but that fact will be proven as soon as her "cool" wears off! 

     I know y'all see all the self empowerment/relationship posts on the social networks! I ask you this,"How is it that women think that they know what a good woman is? Is it because they think what their mom did for their dad is gonna work on every man? Is there a woman alive that thinks she's not a good woman? Is there a woman alive that doesn't think her assets, i.e. her vagina gives her more stay power?

    Unfortunately for both parties involved if sex is the foundation of male interest, that will get skeeted out of us faster than you can say,"How do you feel about me?"(<---all of a sudden, the answer to that question becomes complicated. 

      For some reason everyone feels the need to shuffle their cards when really all they need to do is play their hand. That is only part of the problem. Everyone isn't meant to be your companion. Just because you're interested in someone doesn't mean it needs to go beyond attraction. Philosopher,Osho, speaks about love in a sense that I understood naturally but never heard put quite like he stated.  Osho says,"If you love something about a flower, don't pick it because it will die, and will no longer posses what it is you loved about it. Love is not about possession, it's about appreciation. Both sides can take something from that. 

    I'm trying to figure this sh*t out just like the rest of y'all but I'm taking notes cause this test is gonna be a b*tch...literally.